Long Distance Relationship or lately called as LDR is one of the famous people relationship type. Surprisingly, this type of relationship becomes one of the famous things in teenager love-life-style. Many teenagers, who accidentally fall in love with someone far away from them, decide to have this kind of relationship without know the impact. LDR has a positive side which one is save our time because you don’t have meet your boy/girlfriend regularly but it also has a negative side. And for me, LDR just bring more negative than the positive one.

First, we will see from the positive side. When you are having a Long Distance Relationship means you don’t have to meet your spouse regularly so it will make you have much time to spend with your friends or your family. In addition, you can also do your hobbies without get an interrupted or complained from your spouse whether they don’t like your hobbies. For example, boys usually like football and they will do everything for their passion. In the other hand, girls usually like soccer even few of them like that. That differences makes girls don’t like when the boys ignore them because of soccer. If you do LDR you can solve this problem. Boys can play soccer all the daylight without get complained from their girls, and also the girls. Girls can do shopping without getting interrupted because your spouse far-far away from you.

                The other side of LDR can make you don’t get any benefit. When you do LDR means you can’t meet your boy/girlfriend. That will makes you can’t handle what happen with your partner there. Somehow it will make you get an extra ordinary jealousy. You will be suspicious person. Then when you don’t trust your partner, both of you will start to fight. Some couple can’t stand the fight which start from jealousy and they decide to break up. LDR also will make you waste more money than regular relationship. If you can’t meet him/her for long time because of they aren’t around you or the worst one is they live in different side of the world with you, you will waste your money with telephone call. You can imagine how much your parents will pay for your lullabies. You also can use internet like Skype, Web Camera, or anything else, but it still waste your parent money, doesn’t it? You have wasted your parents money with your main needed from you were young until right now then you force them to pay for your lullabies again? Think again.

                So, from those things we can see the impact of LDR in two sides. You can decide by yourself if LDR is good for you or not. You can choose for not wasting your money and your heart or you want to have the relationship without partner around you. You have your choice in your hand because you will walk through in that relationship. Because of that you should know what the best for you, your family, and also for your shine and bright future.


Question

These days many teenagers decide to have spouse in different town, different island, or different country. This phenomenon is well known as long distance relationship or LDR. Now, we can see several impacts of this relationship. First of all, this relationship will depend on your money. Because of the distance that both of you have, you can’t meet him/her regularly like other common couples. The only one thing that both of you can do is having a contact by phone or internet. How about if you don’t have enough money to call, text, or access the internet? It will be the next effect. The next effect is your relationship becomes not enjoyable anymore. When you can’t control your spouse activity you will be insecure or become overprotective. And when you are always be like that, your relationship will be full of jealousy. Then what will happen when the jealousy enters your relationship? Both of you will distrustful each others. That suspicious feeling will be coming with some fighting. And do you know what the most awful thing about LDR? You can’t solve your relationship problems like other common couples. You can’t meet each other and talk about your problem face to face, heart to heart, and calmly. At the end, you will be tired of this illusion relationship. You will feel like you have a relationship with invisible spouse or the worst feeling is you just like date your phone or your computer because you have spend too much time with them than with your real spouse. And the last but not least, having a long distance relationship will waste your time. You are too busy to think about what she/he does over there and make you ignore people around you such as your family or friends. From those impacts we will conclude that having long distance relationship can waste everything like your money, your time, and your attention to other people. So, please think before you act.